Summary and Review of When the Church Was a Family
Title: When the Church Was a Family: Recapturing Jesus’ Vision for Authentic Christian Community
Author: Joseph H. Hellerman
Summary
Hellerman’s main argument is that the first century Church and Eastern cultures have a strong group mentality. There is a fierce loyalty to blood relation, especially siblings.
The first chapter discusses the importance of the strong group mentality in the early Church. The second chapter explores the strong familial bond, especially between siblings during first century culture. Then, with that groundwork being laid, the author shifts the focus to Jesus’s teachings that while familial relationships might be primary in first century culture, His Kingdom family should now take priority. Throughout the rest of the book, Hellerman discusses Paul’s similar teachings throughout the New Testament and then continues on even beyond what is recorded in Scripture to what we see in early Church history.
Hellerman discusses how these new family bonds might work in our modern era, touching on topics such as salvation, everyday living, decision making, and leadership. The author’s primary argument is that our local churches and/or small group communities should be our primary source of spiritual life.
Interesting Pieces
Page 5 – Hellerman makes an interesting observation that American marriages are about the personal happiness and fulfillment of both individuals.
Page 63 – the author provides an explanation of Jesus’s teachings that seem to be anti-family such as “I have no brothers, sisters or mother,” and “let the dead bury their dead.”
Page 144 – the author talks about the concept of the local church and/or small groups becoming a surrogate family for new believers.
Review
While I agree with Hellerman’s claim that community is important, I’m not sure if I fully agree with his initial claim that historically speaking first century culture placed a high value on sibling relationships. This seems to be a major premise for the entire book. So, I had a hard time following the rest of the author’s reasoning.
There were certainly parts within this book that I benefited from, especially talking about the Church being a surrogate family. I have seen this to be the case in my limited number of years in ministry. I am also beginning to understand the great importance of Christian community in our discipleship process. Without have a place to feel loved and secure, I know we are less likely to change more into the image of Jesus.
Where to Buy
You can purchase When the Church Was a Family here.
